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Ashamed to be a Jordanian!

I have always considered my self to be a patriot Jordanian, who carries a lot of love and respect for my country and an uncompromising level of defence and protection of its reputation in response to criticism.
However I felt and for the very first time in my life to be ashamed of being a Jordanian when I read a horrific story last week of a father who molested his two daughters (6 and 7 years at the time of molestation) for a total of 75 times, offering one of them money and then having a reduced court sentence for 3 years because the mother of the daughter dropped her charges.
This is simply sickening, outreagous and scandelous to happen in Jordan at the 21st century.
Well, you may say the laws provide such an escape route if the mother drops charges and the father admits. I say in response...screw our laws!
The issue of national laws that provide reduced sentences for male criminals who kill their female siblings for the so-called "honor reasons" have been a scandal in the face of our country and has been so outrageously defended even by parliamentarians and law makers as a protection for honor in Jordan.
Damn a country and a nation that thinks its honor can be evaluated by the behaviour of women and the license to kill provided for the males. However, this can be negotiated and debated, but when a man sexually offends his children and get a three year sentence because the mother dropped charges (most likely under the intimidation of other males in the family) this is a disaster and real cause to be ashamed.
Not only had these two innocent children been subjected to horrendous behaviour 75 times by the "father", they have been betrayed by the mother and rest of the family and by the national laws. This is a quadrable crime that was committed against the two girls and all the layers of the society participated with the biggest shame falling on law makers and implementation tools.
This country needs to act soon on its schizophrenia. It must decides to be a modern country with modern laws that respect human rights and social justice and never tolerate misconduct against women and children and then it can claim regional leadership and "reform" and should not be able to organize the World Economic Forum while still finds an escape route for someone molesting his own children.
 
For more disturbing description of the story, read the Jordan Times report by the ever excellent Rana Huseeini
 
The Criminal Court has sentenced a 43-year-old man to three years and four months in prison after convicting him of molesting his daughters.

The Criminal Court first sentenced the defendant, a plumber, to six years and eight months in prison after convicting of molesting his two daughters over 75 times.

But the tribunal immediately halved the sentence because the victims’ mother dropped charges against her husband.

The victims, aged 15 and 13, were six and seven when they were molested, according to court documents.

The court said the defendant repeatedly molested his two daughters by force and in one instance he offered one of them money to sleep with him.

“The defendant instructed his two daughters not to inform anyone, but when he offered money to one of his daughters and kept molesting them they contacted the Family Protection Department seeking help,” the court said.

The defendant, who pleaded not guilty, confessed before the criminal prosecutor to molesting his children  and provided a similar confession during the court hearing.

During a previous hearing, he told the tribunal that he did molest both his daughters and “wanted to admit in court so that he would clear his conscience in front of his daughters and God,” a senior judicial source told The Jordan Times.

Based on the court confessions, the tribunal was satisfied with his testimony and decided not to summon any of the victims’ immediate relatives to testify in the case, the source added.

The tribunal comprised justices Hassan Amayrah, Majid Azab and Bassam Yamani.

Thursday’s verdict is subject to appeal by the attorney general and the defendant within the next 30 days.


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On April, 29, 2007 9:51 AM , secratea
from United States said:

Yes, I totally agree with you. I am ashamed of being from a country that gives males the upper hand in burdening their females with carrying the honor of the family, while excusing males for violationg that same so-called honor. No, beleive me Batir, this can not be debated.. it is never the right for any humanbeing to violate the existance of any other humanbeing!


On April, 30, 2007 1:55 PM , Sa!sh
from Jordan said:

well, being in country that gives the man the upper hand makes us all feel bad but the worse is the mother who didn't keep her charges, so knowing that we live in a country makes people underestimate themselves is worse than everything.


On May, 02, 2007 7:47 AM , tommy
from United States said:

I suspect the poor handling of this matter is a side-effect of the tribalism of the Arab world. The western world would consider this a crime against the state, not simply the victim, and the prosecution and sentencing would mostly depend on the strength of the evidence at hand, not on the sentiments or wills of the involved parties. Instead, this crime is basically being handled as an embarrassing family matter first and foremost. There is little to indicate that the matter is being treated as though the greater society and the state itself has been offended. The whole idea of a modern nation-state is a weak concept in the Arab world. So don't be ashamed of your nation: it is that very notion that needs to be strengthened.


On May, 03, 2007 3:06 AM , MKE
from Canada said:

hey,

i just recently discovered your website, and am glad that people in my home country are increasingly being aware of current events and are utilizing the internet for fresh voices and new ideas. dogma and mob thinking has lead our country to the backwardness we all complain about today.

this person should be sentenced to life without a chance for parole. if not the ultimate punishment is only because i don't believe in capital punishment. end of story. no uneducated imbecile mp's trying to make up for their poor endowment by legislating legitimized cold blooded murder.

on another note, i found a few errors in your articles. for example "senatES" means the plural of a senate, or a majlis al a3yan. senatORS is the plural of a single member of the body of a senate. jordan has only one senate and forty senators ;)

also, in the petra page, you substituted "position" which means "place" for "possession" which means an owned material thing.

im very pleased with your blog, it sure is gonna have a place on my bookmarks folder!


On May, 05, 2007 1:17 AM , tambi jalouqa
from Jordan said:

sad , sad for us living in this country. Where the actual shame of te incident is far more important than the two ruined lives of the girls.

Im sure all their relatives will be also not intimidated to perform such acts themselves. They should do the honor killing on the man himself "not encouraging violence though" just stating that we blame females for everything that happens.

If we had more respect for females, none of this honor bullshit would have happened.




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